DH let ss go to his BM, mothers (GM) house to spend the night. GM is the person that was doing the sv until she couldn't take any more of BM bs and quit. SS loves going over there because all his cousins live in the same government apartment complex. SS is a only child at our house. DH and I have had ss 4 years now and no one ever calls to see how he is doing. (I mean family not his BM.) They never call and ask for him to come over. But at Thanksgiving. All the contact is made by DH calling and asking if SS can come spend a few day. We even take his cousins on our vacations. Now the cousins fight over which one gets to go. LOL. Anyway I think DH should just back off and see how long they'll go before anyone cares enough to call. I know thats mean. We do all the driving because they never have a car running or thats the story we get. They live 1 hr away, so thats a 2 hr trip just to take ss to visit.
So we gave them a invitation to ss birthday party and the day of the party GM calls and sayes they can't make it the car is broke down. No suprise right. So Gm asked if she could have ss and just give him a party at her house. So the day we're suppose to take him to meet, Gm calls and sayes the cars broke down could ya'll bring him all the way or I'll get him another time. So Dh takes him all the way. And I go pick SS up yesterday. So we get him home and asked him how his party went and he said he didn't have one, so we asked what he got for his birthday and he said he didn't get anything from them. WTF! They can't get a cheap toy. I'm so sick of these people they have 3 grown adults living in a low income apt. surly you could afford something. Then before I leave with ss he has to have a 2 yrs. old crying fit, he doesn't want to go. The kids just run wild down there they do what they want and theres always alot of them there. Like 10. I know SS gets lonely for someone to play with at our house and thats why he wants to stay. But it drives me crazy this has been going on for years. Once he gets in the truck alls back to normal. My ss feels so sorry for these people because they never have money. (Get a job). I know SS thinks me and his DH are rich. Because we have a nice house and cars. But we work for them. I'm just scare that these people are going to suck ss dry when he gets older. I told DH he should not promote ss going down there anymore. Just let them ask for SS to come. They won't. Sorry for the rant.
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